Never pretend to a love which you do not actually feel, for love is not ours to command. -Alan Watts
I'm so glad that I came across this quote. I was having a conversation last night about this exact subject. I explained that love CANNOT happen by default. Love is an emotion that is real and unconditional. Lust can never replace love, although it is sometimes confused for love. So lovers love on and lusters find love. LOL. It really is a beautiful thing.